"Lily" in Dad's hands

[Mike McCarty]

Cynthia, that's a good point. I could best spend my time on something I could use.

Chris, I did take some of the parents holding the baby but in each case the baby is so small you just can't get a handle on it.

Stanka, thanks for the nice compliment.

I can always count on such wonderful advise. Thanks again to all.

[Renee Price]

Mike,

I have done paintings of both of my boys when they were babies and they are two of my favorites. The picture of the baby in the father's hands is beautiful. I understand that we think a better painting can be accomplished by painting an older child, but a new parent doesn't see it the same way we do. If they want a portrait to capture this special moment, go for it. The parents see what's in front of them now and they want to cherish this time. Who's to say that they won't want another portrait three or four years from now?

Good luck with your choice,
Renee Price

[Mike McCarty]

I have just one baby, she is now seventeen. From the moment she arrived my life was transformed. The year she was born I built a tennis court along side my house. I never really played tennis again. When she was three I became a single parent. Millions of babies born everyday, common as dirt, until it happens to you.

If these folks really want me to paint this baby I guess I'll give it a go. And if I can keep it from looking like Groucho Marx they will be thrilled, as only a new parent can be.

[Gene Snyder]

Mike,

Maybe take a look at Mary Cassatt's work. She did great works of mothers with children in various settings. Maybe mention having the parents included in the painting? That may be a little tough composition-wise to place emphasis on just the child though. Hope this helps.

Gene

[Debra Norton]

I think painting the baby in her father's hands is a lovely idea. Not just for a portrait, but for the statement it makes. The strong hands of a father cradling his daughter speaks to me of love, nurture, commitment and trust. We need more of that in this world. Go for it Mike!

[Mike McCarty]

I agree that it is a compelling image. I wish I could get Mary Cassatt to do it. Do you have her e-mail? For me it would be a chanllenge. I think the parents have decided to do photo's every three months until Lily gets a little older. Plus the advice of Cynthia rings true, work towards those things which enhance your portfolio. If you have the option. Not many commissions of newborn babies.