Thanks Cynthia and Mike...
Ya know Mike.. I never really took to being "Mary Smith"
Never felt like "me" So going back to Sparrow feels like me again, and while it was a rough patch I can say with all certainty that since I've become "me" again my whole world has opened up, so as the old saying goes, when a door closes another one opens... I have to say a million doors open! I've never been happier or busier!