Mary, I have to go alone here. I would pick #2. First I love his face here, I think a formal portrait is something the child will want to hang as an adult - since I married "Dumbo" as a kindergartner (his ears have grown to his adult head size

). I think the first one with all its personality will not be a favorite to him. I think if you do a three quarter of #2 and do a blended background, meaning lose the detail, keep some depth and light, it could frame him nicely. I think his expression is sweet for a piece of art instead of a photo to send to grandma. Can you blow these up to see shadow detail on the faces?