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The "donkeys and lost boys" in question were not complaining about critiques, but expressing a desire for more tough love. I only regret that so much energy has gone into this thread, taking time away from critiques for those who could benefit from them.
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Jeff, my response was to emphasize that different personalities can benefit from different types of critiques. I've heard many horror stories about people who left art early and didn't return until life and years had given them the confidence to try again - all because of someone who was a harsh critic and who made them believe that their work was no good. These were people who often became quite successful later on and who demonstrated a true mastery of art; what a shame that they were discouraged from practicing it for so long. Since we don't know each other's needs and personalities I always try to err on the side of kindness.
So no, I don't think we're all saying the same thing, and for what it's worth, I'm also still critiquing as well as commenting here. We all find the time to respond to what grabs us. Not to worry!