Mary I just sent you an email.
Alicia, I figure with the three of us we can beat this thing!
The one book I recommend is:
Canon EOS Digital Rebel it is a series in the Magic Lantern Guides.
It is much easier and comprehensive than the manual.
Two sites I recommend:
for anyone shooting photo reference:
Glowluzid's Portrait Tips
for Canon owners:
Photoworkshop
Have fun!